High Intention – Low Attachment Or How to Set and Achieve Your “big Idea”

Your High Intention(s) = Emotional involvement with Your Big Idea(s). This is not wishful thinking or I would if I could type of fantasizing. Although, it may begin there. Your High Intention requires continuous and sustained focus on your Big Idea.

  • How will your life improve when your Big Idea becomes manifest?
  • How will you have changed mentally, emotionally and/or physically?
  • Who will you be associating with, what will you be wearing, how has the environment around you changed?

Think in detail.

Make sure these details are exciting to you. This Big Idea should take you beyond your present level of comfort so that when you see the end result in your mind it literally causes your pulse to quicken. You may even feel a little light-headed. Just like falling in love, you can actually feel your own heart beat.

When is the last time you had an idea or even a fleeting thought that made you feel like that? Most people stuff it away as quickly as it pops up by slapping it with down with an automatic excuse as to why it’s not possible, I’m too short, too thin, too fat, too tall, too bald, too poor, too old, too tired, too inexperienced, too single, too married, too busy, too smart, too dumb, too whatever!

Then we forget we even have Big Ideas, we don’t claim them as our own. Ask someone what would make them happy and the most common response would be more money. But money is just currency, it’s not the physical money that will make you happy, it’s what you DO with the money that brings satisfaction.

In his book, The 4-Hour Work Week, Tim Ferriss states, most people have a lot of trouble coming up with the defined dreams they’re being held from. This is particularly true with the doing category. In that case, consider these questions:

a. What would you do, day to day, if you had $100 Million in the bank?

b. What would make you most excited to wake up in the morning to another day?

Then he goes on to suggest, that if you are drawing a blank, write down the answers to the following:

* pick one place to visit

* one thing to do before you die (memory of a lifetime)

* one thing to do daily

* one thing to do weekly

* one thing you’ve always wanted to learn

Now that you have your Big Idea firmly planted in your mind the next thing you must do is let go of it. Huh? Confused yet? Remember the cliché; When you love someone (something), set them (it) free?That’s the same principle here. So, how exactly does one focus on their Big Idea and let it go at the same time?

Commit yourself to the fact that your Big Idea or BETTER is now manifesting. This is critical. The OR better factor creates a low attachment to the outcome. Better is Better, right? Your High Intention sets up the action steps necessary to achieve your Big Idea. Start taking those steps and just know that the unknown pieces of the puzzle will fall into place when and where they are supposed to. Your low attachment to the end result opens your mind to receive the good you desire through multiple and unexpected channels.

Your job is to do all that you can right now with where you are today. Each action builds on previous actions advancing you toward your goal. You are becoming/evolving into the person who has, does, or is the embodiment of your Big Idea.

The more emotionally involved you are with your vision for yourself the higher your state of vibration. It’s the law of vibration that governs the law of attraction. When you become emotionally involved with an idea or vision of a specific outcome, your physical and mental being literally vibrates at a higher frequency. This is the frequency that attracts that which you desire to you.

Think of the analogy of a radio frequency. Turning on the radio may or may not produce a result you are looking for. There may simply be static or the channel is airing news and you want to listen to music. Your action is to tune the dial to the frequency you want to RECEIVE.

Simply put, if you are not receiving the results that you want in your life, Change The Channel!

Tune your thoughts toward your High Intentions – there may be quite a bit of static at first, coming from your present conditions and old paradigms. You will know when you’ve found the correct frequency because you will feel the energy of it. The vibration of truth resonates through your whole being. This is thinking in a certain way! The more you practice this, the longer you will be able to sustain your vision for yourself regardless of present conditions and circumstances.

** Remember, It’s This or Better! **

You’ve got the vision, you’ve got the vibration, now move your feet!

Move toward your goal, Take the first step, no matter how small.

Physically move toward what you are attracted to and that reality will be attracted to you.

Be ready to receive for it may come to you all at once or incrementally. And most importantly… Be grateful that you are now receiving that which you desire. Be grateful for every thing you have, everything you receive and everything you can give.

Be grateful that you have Big Ideas.


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