One thing in life you can be certain of is: life changes. Sorry if this comes as a shock but there you go. You cannot get away from it. Times move on and we either move with it or we fall flat on our faces. You might find this to be very blunt but it is a very good thing really. Try to imagine a world where everything is static; think of how the world would be without development or creativity. Just imagine if people stayed the same through lack of experience. A modern vibrant world needs a modern vibrant person to survive. A good first step to take is accepting change is essential in the world. A question you need to ask yourself is “am I willing to maximize my own potential in this world too”
If you have answered yes which I hope you have then you can start to take the steps to maximize your potential and achieve your goals at the same time. Put yourself in the driving seat for a change and take advantage of a world with limitless potential.
Make yourself aware
As simple as this sounds it is not as simple as it appears. Believe me. Analysis without awareness results in faulty judgments and defective reasoning. Think of those cartoons where an angel and a devil would appear on bugs bunny’s shoulders and whisper in his ears. Our minds are working like that all the time. We are often driven by conscience and rash impulses all the time. Having some awareness will put us in the driving seat and help us to make the right choices.
Internal conflict will always be a part of our lives. Some people will always fail to make the right choices or judgment calls and end up in a state of eternal flux. Others end up on life’s scrap heap by continuously making the worst judgment calls.
Being aware helps you to make the right call. Listen to the advice of others but always be your own master.
Characterize Your Success
What exactly is success? Success is the achievement of a pre-determined goal or target. Success means very different things to different people. Success in other words is very subjective. What would success mean to you? Would it be winning your local golf clubs’ weekly medal or having the perfect marriage or making a lot of money.
What you need to do is define what your success means to you and then presto you have your goal. Think about what is special about you that can help you achieve your success. Try to condense your definition of success in to aims, means and outcomes.
Think On How Desirable Your Outcomes Would Be
We all have a tendency to characterize an event on how we felt at the time and not on hind sight. We all know we are a lot wiser after the event than we are in the heat of the moment. The great thing about hind sight is we can all react with greater clarity and focus when something similar happens again.
Learning from experiences is the absolute best way to develop introspection. It gives you the confidence to try different things, and to try different approaches. To reach your desired outcome you just need to think about it like a challenge to be solved. Use your awareness to create a curiosity about the world and your surroundings. Outcomes are best achieved with a flexible and adaptive state of mind.
Learn To Use Your Intuition
We have all had gut feelings at some point in our lives. Intuition has been at the center of the world’s most important decisions. Isn’t it strange that some of our greatest moments are made when we are not even thinking about it?
There is no clear reason for this but it seems to be down to a relaxed state of mind. When the mind is not under pressure it has time to dedicating it’s time to creative and productive thought. Relaxed focus is one of the most powerful tools in the personal development locker.
Try not to over analyze a situation too much and you will benefit from greater clarity of thought in your decision making.
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